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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 27 days ago

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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 27 days ago
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    27 days ago

    Wouldn’t the ideal future be not needing to ask if they know what concerns is (because they already know)? Although this is a great interim step.

    • a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world
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      We ain’t gonna get there, friend.

      • foxglove (she/her)@lazysoci.alM
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        26 days ago

        hi! thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further.

        thanks for understanding 💛

        • a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world
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          Message received. Sub blocked.

          • foxglove (she/her)@lazysoci.alM
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            thanks so much!!

      • sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world
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        I’m just going to behave very poorly until we do. 😉

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          I’m not disagreeing in principal, but assholes will always be there. I like the future where we don’t tolerate them.

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    This unironically, consent is critical to a good sex/cuddle life.

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    Please note: this community is women-only, please read the rules before commenting.

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    Dang, that should be the standard going forward. If a bouncer isn’t asking dudes to define what consent is, skip that bar and go to the next.

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      based on my experience, they need to ask everyone

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      hi! thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further.

      hope you understand 💙

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    yes means yes no means no. each person decides for themselves and not others. it seems pretty simple to me.

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      hi there! thanks for your comments, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further.

      hope you understand 💛

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        i’M NONBINARY FUCK THE FUCK OFF

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      I think in addition, you’re looking for an enthusiastic yes, and an absence of “no” is not implicit consent.

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        i mean you’re explicitly talking sexual consent, i’m just talking consent.

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          Not necessarily. In what other context would you say my comment doesn’t apply?

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            contracts. you don’t need enthusiastic yes, you both just need to agree. sometimes reluctant yesses from all sides work out because you’ve negotiated a middle ground that has a compromise that is not quite what you all want, but works out positively enough for each side.

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    Why did I just know this was going to attract dudes? I avoided it for days because I knew what was coming and didn’t need the stress.

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    One could only wish.

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    And then everybody clapped

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