TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]
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TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•Admin Update: Ongoing situation with recent site changesEnglish
13·1 year agoim imagining ur one of those toys where the eyes pop out when u squeeze it and im squeezing u super hard
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•TC69 UPDATE: HOT OFF THE PRESSESEnglish
30·1 year agoWe will be updating the COC in the coming week-ish to explicitly disallow misogynistic and chauvinistic language/sentiments – what will be explicitly said
this is very cool and good, and as a proud commenter-not-a-poster i appreciate the love

anyway i think the whole saying ppl who enjoyed it gave off cishet male vibes was like. a real big issue that should probably be addressed somehow
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.nettoneurodiverse@hexbear.net•Ableism gets so fucking real when you near capitalEnglish
4·1 year agoah okay, i did it for about two years and gave up lol
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•New Struggle SessionEnglish
7·1 year ago
i took nature to mean like, plants, and i think swords and flowers go good together
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•i will never take this website seriouslyEnglish
29·1 year agoi refuse to expend energy online in general
this site is just a wall i stare at when i dont feel like doing other things
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.nettoneurodiverse@hexbear.net•Ableism gets so fucking real when you near capitalEnglish
16·1 year agoi somehow managed to get through them a few times, but now it seems impossible. maybe just cos the job market is so shit right now or i just got worth at masking cos of burn out lmao
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.nettoneurodiverse@hexbear.net•Ableism gets so fucking real when you near capitalEnglish
27·1 year agoyep, i find it really really hard to find a job, not because i can’t do things but because i don’t know all the random social norms that go with job hunting
the world is very not-made for autistic people
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•New discussion post coming soon re: Changes to Hexbear communities. *mod statement in comment*English
28·1 year agoIt’s alienating as fuck as a person who isn’t “just” a cishet man to be told that enjoying the comm “reeks of cis white men”.
Yea ngl I don’t really care about most struggle sessions 90% of the time but it really really rubbed me the wrong way to be told i was giving off cis white man vibes.
Would have probably made me spiral if I was AMAB ngl
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•Could you imaingine looking this smug and comfortable?English
4·1 year agoi look this smug and comfortable right now

TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•New discussion post coming soon re: Changes to Hexbear communities. *mod statement in comment*English
4·1 year agono worries, i didn’t really read you as hostile

TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•New discussion post coming soon re: Changes to Hexbear communities. *mod statement in comment*English
65·1 year agoi feel like thinking that way gives off the white men vibes way more than actual group roasts lmao
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•New discussion post coming soon re: Changes to Hexbear communities. *mod statement in comment*English
4·1 year agookay that makes more sense, thanks for explaining
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Main@hexbear.net•New discussion post coming soon re: Changes to Hexbear communities. *mod statement in comment*English
86·1 year agogives off white cishet man vibes
??? im too autistic to understand “vibes”, but i feel like saying everyone who likes making fun of bigots and such are giving off white cishet man vibes is, kinda gross and weird?
idk i do that with my afab friends a lot, we just call it “girl talk” instead of dunking.
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Harry's razors are designed to start ripping after 40+ usesEnglish
15·1 year agooh i’ve heard both, i probably just thought of designed because i saw the word designed lmao
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Harry's razors are designed to start ripping after 40+ usesEnglish
42·1 year agoI literally can’t remember the leftist word for a product that’s designed to break after some time.
it’s designed obsolescence
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Libs analyzing the election rn be likeEnglish
16·1 year agoits actually so gross, and they don’t bat an eye to how fucking racist and gross it is because “well we’re just analyzing how certain groups voted”
icky i hate it
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chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•ELECTION ALERT: Still Too Early To Know Which Minority To Scapegoat | Onion News NetworkEnglish
27·1 year agoi was listening to my father watch the news for a bit while making tea, and man. the amount of times they mentioned a given minority group like it was a monolith was crazy.
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•A lot of people out of the loop completelyEnglish
9·1 year agowish that were me
TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Anime@hexbear.net•Sometimes they buy a slave.English
17·1 year agoisekai as a format is decently nice, because your protagonist has the same knowledge of the world as the reader, you can just explain shit without it seeming weird
unfortunately it mostly gets leveraged for the wish fulfillment of porn addicts which makes the genre icky

more like a rubber chicken but it only makes the noises when u stop squeezing it and the eyes slowly move back into their sockets