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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • Other people’s approval of your life/choices/clothing doesn’t mean shit. High school bitches being mean? You’ll never see the cunts again. People judging you for how you look? Fuckem, you do you. But if your friends/family don’t like your partner, maybe don’t instantly discount that reaction, they may honestly be telling the truth and you aren’t seeing it through your rose coloured love lenses. Be comfortable, be happy, don’t hide yourself cos someone disapproves. Take it all with a grain of salt, as that’s how you’ll see it down the line. And try to stop thinking about the bad things over and over, it burns it into your brain. Think of the fun times and happy memories instead. Focus on retraining your brain to say fuck the bad shit, remember the good times so they don’t fade.







  • The snark you may receive from those jealous is astounding! I definitely got ‘are you dying’ and ‘well your not as fat but still…’ among other drivel. honestly, fuckem. Be proud of your achievement, you do this for you, not them or their approval. They’ll say hurtful things cos they are nasty, keep your chin up, think of some tart responses if you like, but mainly I’d say brush those comments off like you brushed off the weight. Enjoy the cake in moderation and keep on doing what you do