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Cake day: September 22nd, 2025

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  • Sometimes I don’t really want to get into a conversation about trans issues. I find the topic very prevalent on here, as if I’ve strayed into a sub by accident. Live and let live, and absolutely respect everyone’s right to be whatever they want, but it’s not a topic I can contribute to - and I certainly I don’t want to upset anyone by wading into an emotive topic I have no experience, interest or knowledge on, so I’d rather just leave it.

    I’m just saying that it’s up there with LINUX as a prevailing topic, which I’m similarly disinterested in.






  • I initiated it, but she readily agreed. I think we both knew after 5 years together that it wasn’t working. I remember hugging and driving away and then suddenly feeling really upset. It was the uncertainty I didn’t like. I’d grown used to having a partner for events, movies etc.

    I’m married now with a family and, surprisingly, never really think of any of my exes. But at the time, yeah, I found it quite unsettling.








  • It’s not a slur, and in no way offensive as far as I’m concerned, but it’s not going to take off in the way you guys hope. Just cause a small percentage of the population use it, the majority of people probably find it unnecessary. It’s like calling people non- billionaires. It’s an unnecessary step for most folk in their daily lives.