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Cake day: August 28th, 2025

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  • oh i wouldnt have thought of it that way, i guess it makes a lot of sense, i would only be scared that she gets jealous or distances from me, when my gf’s on the house for example mochi (cat) is always away from me and comes back desperate for cuddles and attention once she’s finally gone, so i would be very sad if she did the same with another cat in the whouse, cause ofc i wouldnt ever give them away after a rescue and i wouldn’t know how to fix it

    but i guess basing on hypotheticals isn’t all that good haha, i should prolly check how stable mochi’s health remain and how much i can save for a vet emergency in case of anything, plus hw finances go living at a new state, and if everything’s okay i’d opt for getting her a friend, if there’s any issues i can always talk to a vet about it i suppose

    do you have any recommendations on bringing a new feline buddy home? they seem to get along so well, did that just come naturally or did it take much time and effort for it to be that way?




  • Emotions and talking about it is political tho? Fuck, even existing (and specially having social media and getting to express yourself or give opinions) as a woman is political, so such a rule feels quite contradictory. Not to mention the comment about being trans inclusive, or if you support immigrant women and want to give them a safe space, how could you take politics off the feeling rants of people who are loosing their jobs, friends, family, homes and their entire lifes over that?? It simply doesn’t make sense in my opinion, so I’d love to know why. I’d get not wanting discussions on it to avoid conflict, but not being able to say how you feel about the subject? Why?






  • Honestly, who tf cares if I get left on read for a week? People have their reasons, their life and they go through shit, you won’t always have the ability or will to reply and that’s totally understandable, I would at most get worried and hope they’re okay, maybe text again cause they could have also just forgotten lol

    As long as it has an explanaition I guess tho, if not I could see why some get upset. Same when it’s something important.

    Only time getting ghosted ever mattered to me was when talking to my therapist about future appointments and my life plans, sent a long text and she never replied, still don’t know to this day why that happened and it feels weird. She’s still active on all her socials too and had contact info besides the place we were chatting at, so I can really think of excuses girl just hates me xd