The easiest way to do this is through Tailscale. It is a super easy to set up Wireguard VPN Mesh that allows you to access your self-hosted services without exposing them to the public internet.

https://tailscale.com/

Here is a great article to get you started: https://tailscale.com/kb/1017/install

They also have an awesome YouTube channel with great tutorials to help you get started. https://www.youtube.com/@Tailscale

Note: while this way not directly answer OP’s specific question, I believe they will get the outcome they are looking for: external access to self-hosted services

+1 for this. I use and love Backblaze. Really affordable. ~$5/mo for unlimited attached external harddrives.

Not a real homelab, that’s for sure.

I need this for my homelab…

I find that using AI can sometimes help me get the ball rolling. Rather than having a blank page, I have some (sometimes shitty) code that I can start from. I have never used 100% of generated code in production.

I have recently set up my own Matrix server. I have played around with the screen sharing, and it appears to work quite well. Very high quality.

This may be because my server is very small and few people were using it. I haven’t played around with it on larger servers.