Courtney (she/her/they)

Hello lovelies, I am a (trans)Woman who is still in the process of discovering herself!

I have been working up the courage to be who I am for so long, I am excited to be figuring things out.

Pre-HRT, pre-fashion-sense, and pre-confidence.

Any and all tips and advice from more experienced women are welcome!

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Cake day: April 10th, 2026

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  • On the one hand, you kind of are making yourself a lie of sorts, which is unethical.

    On the other hand, presumably the magic is permanent and that’s just the new you, forever, so it’s not a lie. You’ve just changed your personality to fit their desire/needs.

    So much in the way that Aladdin became a prince via phenomenal cosmic power, he really was a prince and not a fake prince, and therefore never really lied to jasmine about that (he just about literally any part of his past as a prince, since he wasn’t until yesterday), because genie magic isnt some cheap parlor trick.

    So yeah, as long as you are the one permanently changing and you don’t lie about it then I guess that’s okay with me.




  • Sure, here’s 50 cents for the coffee.

    Now here’s the bill for the ride, the seat cleaning where you sat, the new air freshener since that’s obviously been used now, my consulting fee, conversation fee, silence fee, and an additional 47.30 for various small consumables like oil, coolant, washer fluid…

    Adds up to 1.846,97EUR for the day. You can send that whenever.

    Oh right, almost forgot the €200 calculation fee.

    Also it’s a 30% interest rate per day for late fees






  • RTGs do get put out in space, however they aren’t used for everything. If a single rocket experiences Spontaneous Unplanned Disassembly while carrying an RTG, it’s a disaster that spreads radioactive materials.

    The entire point of an RTG is to use the waste heat as power, and if I understand RTG design, the cooling fins are to provide the difference in temperature that thermoelectric modules need to produce power. So there isn’t a ton of heat that it gives off in general.

    Look at the international space station. It has massive radiator panels, and all it needs to do is house humans and the equipment to keep them alive. A lot of bulkiness of space suits is dedicated to heat management.

    The #1 product of data centers is massive amounts of equipment-killing heat. That heat either gets radiated via massive radiator panels, or the space data center cooks it’s own equipment.


  • I’ve never heard anything but praise for this movie. Edit: I take that back, I have heard one person talk shit specifically after finding out that trans people love this movie, going on about religious bs.

    The live action remake shot near a concentration camp, on the other hand… I pretend it doesn’t exist.

    Pps: my partner is NB and LOVES Man Out of You. Asks me to turn it up so they can hear better (going Deaf)





  • An acquaintance from highschool kept going on about some guy stalking her. Always following her in the halls at school, following her home, and following her downtown sometimes…

    He lived on the same street as her, and they both took the same computer class and had band/lunch block together.

    I pointed out I recognize him, he finally hit a growth spurt and now he’s much taller and noticeable.

    She insisted he convinced his parents to move closer so he could stalk her better.

    I never saw him outside one day we were at Walmart and he was clearly there with his parents and little sister. Nope, stalking. She screamed at him and called him names. I left her there.

    I also told him if she tried to call the cops or get lawyers involved, here’s my email and I will tell them an outside perspective.


  • My last interaction with the post office was after a week of getting “PACKAGE NOT DELIVERED, MAILBOX INACCESSIBLE” and no mail at all, and after camping out on my porch to watch it for a day, seeing the mail truck drive right on by and seconds later getting ANOTHER message about the mailbox being inaccessible, I took a picture of the mailbox and went to ask them why their driver is just straight up lying and refusing to deliver my mail.

    After speaking to 3 people and filling out some form basically recounting everything, I got a week’s worth of mail and 2 packages the next morning.

    I miss the days when the usps functioned well, smoothly, and quickly. Before Republicans started gutting it.


  • I got kicked out of my in-laws for yelling at my spouse s sister for saying this.

    My response was “What the fuck did you just say to her? Other people have it much BETTER than you do so why the fuck are you acting so fucking happy? That’s how fucking stupid you sound.”

    For context, she had spent the entire 7 hours she had been awake sitting in a hot tub drinking wine and tequila instead of being a parent, and basically dumped all the responsibilities for the children of the day onto the only othertwo adults present, one of whom was having a panic attack. I was les than happy when I showed up after work to pick my spouse up and walked into chaos and her sobbingand hyperventilating in the bathroom.

    My In laws are terrible people.